We are all so excited ad the cute little polls, applications and invites at our fingertips. Please reconsider before you send your entire address book or friend list a poll on their favorite cereal or "which shoe describes you?" Compound your cute little request by their entire friend list. Between being tagged, polled, and hugged, more social networking time is wasted installing applications that only benefit those who create them. They slowdown your page, annoy your friends you invite and just cut down on the REAL visiting time. If you don't have real stuff to visit about, maybe you open your friend list a bit too much. Find something about YOU to tell them. Don't rely on social marketing/media crutches of installed applications, nudges, tags and hugs.
We all have limited time to socialize. That's why we are online in the first place. I can't get together for coffee with my neighborhood girlfriends, but we can banter about for a bit at 11 pm during the week.
This rant was inspired by an article in AdAge today:
How to Get the Most Out of Social Networks and Not Annoy Users:
Amid Constant Deluge of Requests, Marketers Must Work Harder to Persuade People to Join Their Pages
LONDON (AdAge.com) -- Welcome to social-media message overload.
The constant barrage of invites to sign up for this group or download that app are starting to wear on social-network users, presenting big challenges for the brands and marketers who are looking to use these sites to aggregate fans and cultivate relationships with customers.
